We list five unhealthy relationship habits that guys need to let go of in 2017.
The year 2017 has given us many romantic moments leading up to fantastic wedding ceremonies, but it does not mask the fact that many relationships are filled with unhappiness, and are being driven by a lot of negative energy.
We have listed in here seven wrong relationship traits women need to cancel before the year 2018.
Below we list five unhealthy relationship habits that guys need to let go with 2017.
Ok. So this one is a particularly tough one because such is the rooted ingraining of the cheating culture around here that many ladies now [rightly?] believe that there is no guy that doesn't cheat.
Regardless of its popularity, though, it’s still a toxic relationship behavior. It hurts, destroys and damages trust, shatters hopes and breaks spirits and occurrences of it need to reduce greatly if not totally stopped.
Realistically, it’ll be a long shot to expect a 100% reversal of such widespread behavior just in a year, but change always starts from somewhere.
Let 2017 be the year you drop cheating. Choose one woman, fellas, and stick with her.
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2. Domestic violence
Much like cheating, reports of male-perpetrated domestic violence was also well documented in 2017 and of course, those are just the ones that got reported. There are almost certainly a lot more unreported cases.
Guys, let the barbarism stop in 2017. We can do better than hitting women and we should. Being wound up by their annoying words is not an excuse.
No hitting, only more kissing caressing of our women in 2018.
This, compared to cheating and domestic violence, sounds like a lesser evil but it’s an evil nonetheless.
Guys be sure of what you want in 2018. Instead of blowing hot and cold, showing mixed signals and confusing the hell out of these gorgeous ladies, grab a hold of yourself, pull back, gather your thoughts and be certain of what you want before going in.
Friendship with benefits, a serious relationship, chilling, casual relationship, just friendship… make up your mind.
Please know what you want before jumping into someone’s daughter’s life with your erratic emotions.
We are not creating chaos in 2018, bruv.
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So you pursue a girl with all the right levels of tenacity. You do everything right, say the right things at the right time, you show up and show out till she can no longer help but fall in love with you.
Now that she’s yours however, you take your foot off the pedal. You’re no longer the guy she once knew.
Effort is gone. You’re now complacent in loving her; no longer as dedicated and intentional about bringing her happiness and laughter.
Let that stop in 2017, sir. Let 2018 be the year you rediscover the form you began the relationship with.
We are loving these women with that intense level of energy in 2018 and beyond.
5. Boring sex
My man, I put it to you that being sexually unadventurous and static is a toxic relationship behaviour and you gotta stop it.
Boring sex is bad behaviour especially if it's coming from you, bruh.
If your sex life is not rounded, if your idea of getting down is mono-dimensional, 2018 is the time to get it right.
These ladies are tired of missionary and doggy styles. If cowgirl is all you know, reverse it, bruh.
If she wants longer foreplay, learn to dance to her tune. If it’s oral sex, communicate and look for a way around it.
Sometimes be gentle, get a bit nasty at other times. Baba, just add that unpredictable edge to your game. We’re leaving boring sex in 2017.
Be sure to shake up your sex life and the whole of your relationship in 2018.